I've decided to take a philosophical approach to the idea of R's parents moving up here. Though I truly want them to move in with us, I obviously can't force the issue. Even still, I think things will happen as they will, and my fretting over it won't do anything to help the situation. Indeed, it will only make it worse, so I've got to live and let live. Let the cards fall as they may, because life has a way of working out, even when your ideal scenario isn't realized.