Our schedules are pretty full
these days, and I think on the one hand it’s a good thing, but on another, it’s
a little crazy. We try to make sure we have at least one day in the week when
we stay put at home so we can all be domestic and maybe I can even get some
work done around the house/yard... yeah, right.
At times this means that the kids
have no planned activities and may get a little bored, but I don’t think this
is a bad thing, because being over scheduled leads to a neurotic adulthood, and
down time spent in your own head leads to thoughtfulness and the ability
entertain oneself.
Either way, that doesn’t mean that
we don’t have our days of craziness. When I look back on them I’m amazed that
we get through them. Book club days are like that. The kids really enjoy it,
and I’m grateful that N gets to take part because it’s a great group of kids,
but the timing forces me to get not only an early lunch together, but I have to
have that evening’s supper ready, as well, because as soon as we’re out the
door, there’s no coming back until the evening.
One downside to all this madness
is that the kids don’t get to play together afterward. In the past they would
hang out and play for hours, sometimes going until dinner time. We would often
have the whole gang come over to our house and they would get crazy, though for
the record, they never destroyed the house like some kids I’ve met do. A
testament to the fact that they’re just good kids.
Our schedules no longer allow for
this, however. Right after book club we have video camp, and then after that,
hockey for both kids. That means two huge hockey bags for them, and my
equipment as well because I’m helping to coach. I used to go with N to the
skate park, but with all that gear, I can’t fit his bike in the trunk anymore.
I toyed with the idea of putting the bike rack on, but at some point you just
have to make due without. I did manage to put the pod on the roof rack for more
storage space, and thanks go out to my Mentor for that.
All in all, it’s a long day, but
we sure do love hockey, and it works out fairly well because R has her Zumba
class that evening, so she gets home around the same time as us. We can all sit
down to a nice supper and tell each other about how crazy our lives are. Then
again, it’s like Charles Bukowski said, “Some people never go crazy. What
horrible lives they must lead.”
Until the next time, thanks for
reading, and thanks to Lyra Jaye for the pic.
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